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How To Talk To Your Kids About Going Back To School

Monday, August 15, 2016 by Lolli 2 Comments

Isn’t it so hard to believe that it’s back to school season already? I feel as though my kids just started summer break. This summer was filled to the brim with swim team and lots of individual trips – camp, scouts, activities – and it never felt like a typical summer. I think we’re all looking forward to the new school year.

Back-to-school is easier in some respects now that they are in middle school, high school and college. Transitioning to a new school year – and often a new school – is a big deal, and despite the fact that we’ve got a number of “first days” under our belt, we still need to prepare, both mentally and physically.

One way to get older kids ready for a new school year is to sit them down for a back to school talk. I believe it’s just as important as the back to school shopping trip for new school supplies.

As your kids get older, you may wonder what you should include in this back to school talk. Here are some of my suggestions and some topics we touch on.

How to talk to your kids about back to school, and what preparing for the emotional aspect of back to school season is just as important as the school supply shopping trip

Talk about the routine

I know every parent out there has this talk with their child when back to school rolls around. The routine talk is kind of a wake-up call for the whole house. No more staying up late and sleeping in; it’s time to get back into the school routine. We chat about what new things we’ll be adding to the schedule – not only do we have early wake up for school , but we’ve got fall sports that start practicing after school. It’s good to sit down with a calendar and map out who needs to be where when, and how we can be ready, as a family and individually, for the demands on our time.

Encourage responsibility

I’m blessed to have fairly responsible kids, but even the most responsible kids need a little back to school chat. Talk to your kids about their responsibilities while they are in school as well as responsibilities that they’ll need to take care of at home. Maybe touch on what you expect from them and what their school may be expecting from them. Don’t forget that even if your kids shows signs of being mature, they still need a reminder from time to time.

How to talk to your kids about back to school, and what preparing for the emotional aspect of back to school season is just as important as the school supply shopping trip

Talk to your kids about empathy

When your children head back to school this year, remind them that the world is a little different than their household. Children in their school come from all different backgrounds. Empathy is such an important concept to talk about with your kids, especially as they head back to school. Remind your kids that they may come into contact with kids who are sad, happy, or even dealing with problems they don’t want to talk about. Showing kindness and understanding is one way your child can reach out to another student who may be struggling. Teaching your child emotional intelligence at a young age is a great gift you can pass along.

Talk to your kids about empathy

Always think twice

Raise your hand if you’re an adult who could use this reminder. I always talk to my kids about making good decisions as back to school season rolls around. I still struggle with thinking twice before making a decision, so I know my teenagers are going to struggle with it as well. Sometimes when you’re in a hurry or preoccupied, it’s so easy to make a quick decision. I teach my kids that there are consequences to their actions. Heading back to school is a good time to remind them of this.

Be a good friend

Last, but not least, a topic that is discussed in our back to school talk is how to be a good friend and why that’s important. Be a good person in general. Don’t laugh at people, don’t make fun of people, and try to help when and where you can. One of the most simple tips is also one of the most profound – simply be the kind of friend that you want to have.

I also keep in mind that my kids are always watching me. They expect me to be a great role model to them in all of these aspects (and more). So this list of tips is as much for me as it is for you and your kids.

Share Empathy

This year is a particularly special (and perhaps difficult) back-to-school season for us. My youngest son, my baby, is starting his first year of middle school. It’s always especially tough to start a new school year at a new school with a bunch of people you don’t already know. This video from Kleenex® really tugged at my heartstrings.

Kleenex® can equip parents and students with the one important school supply this back to school season — empathy. I can’t tell you how many times I have personally been helped and lifted simply by knowing that I wasn’t alone – that there were others who were going through the same fears or struggles as me. Think of how much power our kids could have if they all started the school off with less fear and more empathy towards others!

How to talk to your kids about back to school, and what preparing for the emotional aspect of back to school season is just as important as the school supply shopping trip

Kleenex® brand sponsored a social experiment and workshop with new middle school students to help kids face the challenges of a new school year. The social experiment and workshop was led by Lori Nathanson, PhD, and Shauna Tominey, PhD, researchers at the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence, and focused on the power of emotions to create a more effective and compassionate society.

This is part of the Kleenex® “Someone Needs One” program, where they have challenged people to be more aware of overlooked, everyday opportunities to show that they care.

Find out more on Facebook.com/Kleenex and visit Kleenex.com to see how you and your kids can help make caring contagious as they head back to school.

I was selected for this opportunity as a member of Clever Girls and the content and opinions expressed here are all my own.

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About Lolli

Lolli has written 3740 post in this blog.

I became a mom in 1996, and in 2005 I had my fifth. Yes, 5 kids. In 2007, this blog was born (my 6th baby that will never grow up) and I've been sharing recipes, photography tricks, parenting tips, and everything in between. (Formerly Better in Bulk)

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Comments

  1. Janet W. says

    Saturday, August 27, 2016 at 2:15 pm

    Those are great tips on things to discuss with your child. I talked to my grandsons about returning to school and let them know that they aren’t the only ones that are a little bit nervous.

  2. Julie Wood says

    Monday, August 22, 2016 at 9:38 am

    These are very good tips for helping kids get back into the routine. My kids go back to school next week and I am already getting them back in the routine. It is hard at first, but I think it is good for kids to have a routine and get back to their school work.

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